Just got back from my second conference in NZ. I went to this same conference last year in November, but this year was much better. A) I have more of a handle on the subject, having done some work in it this past year, and B) there were more young people at the conference compared to last year. Additionally, I had many friends as coworkers to hang out with last year, and so we didn't mingle with the older crowd as much, and just enjoyed ourselves by drinking together, out on the company. That was before I learned my Great Big Lesson to be careful about hanging out with co-workers. :)
This year, I didn't know any of my coworkers that went that well. I've distanced myself from the new people that come into my company, and these were the people that went. They are all very nice, but my aversion to get too close to coworkers forced me to mingle outside of familiar faces, and really, that is what conferences are all about.
As a consequence, I was offered a job in Germany, with 50 days of vacation a year! Wow, you Germans really know what's up. :) I made several contacts with companies in Australia, Japan, Chile, Kenya, Iceland, and other parts of NZ. Also, I think I have a potential friend date to go rock climbing with a guy from an Auckland-based company. I've also become involved in a sort of mentoring-type situation with a very awesome Maori girl that is trying to put together her master's project.
All in all, the conference was a rousing success. I had a lot of fun meeting new people. I thought I'd forgotten how to do that.
And I'm very happy that I kept my distance from my coworkers. I was friendly, but kept the conversation very gossip-free. As much as I love gossip, I think it is horribly damaging to people's reputations in the workplace. I really don't care if someone is having an affair, just as long as they do a good job and don't keep me from doing my work. ;) Instead of gossiping with co-workers, I come home and talk with my roommate about all of it--she'll never meet these people and can't do any damage.
Speaking of rumors, I've heard a pretty awful one from one of my bosses...she says that the CEO of my company told her to really think hard about seeking a University position, as the HR people were going to restructure my company very soon. I knew the gravy train was going to end sooner or later! My company spends ridiculous amounts of money on very unnecessary items.
I have a two year contract, so I think I'm safe, plus my other supervisor gets money from outside sources so that half of my job is incredibly secure for the next 5 years. At worst, I would have to take a pay cut and possibly go part time.
Do you Kiwis know how the contract situation works? Can I still get laid off while on one if I haven't done anything wrong?